Interesting debate on whether to separate civil and religious marriage

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/03/us/gay-marriage-prompts-a-call-for-clergy-to-shun-civil-ceremonies.html?mabReward=RI%3A9&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&region=CColumn&module=Recommendation&src=rechp&WT.nav=RecEngine

http://mereorthodoxy.com/marriage-pledge-libertarian-solution-marriage-debate/