Thanks Gemini!
This is one of the most confusing aspects of Slack because it violates the "standard" Mac behavior.
The short answer: "M" is a single-key shortcut, meaning it only works when your cursor is NOT in the text box.
If you are typing a message and press M, you just type the letter "m". For the shortcut to work, you must perform a "focus shift" first.
The "Two-Step Dance" to use the "M" Shortcut
To use the M key to set a reminder, you must first tell Slack, "I am not typing right now; I am looking at a message."
Step 1: Focus the Message List
Press
F6(orFn+F6depending on your Mac settings).What happens: The blue (or grey) focus ring jumps from the text box to the message list above it.
Alternative: You can press the Up Arrow key until a message is highlighted in grey.
Step 2: Select the Message
Use the Up/Down Arrow keys to highlight the specific message you want to be reminded about.
Step 3: Press "M"
Now, press
Mon your keyboard.What happens: The "Remind me about this" context menu will instantly pop up.
Step 4: Select Duration
Use your arrow keys to select a preset (e.g., "In 1 hour") or arrow down to "Custom..." and press Enter to type your specific duration (e.g., "Tuesday 9am").